As the name of my blog indicates, I spend a lot of time thinking about home. Of course, my Heavenly Home is the one that is eternal, so that’s where I need to lay up my treasures, and that’s the one I’m striving for. But in the meantime, I have been given this tiny piece of the here-and-now—this home on the edge of town, this family, this neighborhood—in which to serve Him. And, though this is in the earthly realm, I want the things that happen here to be investments in the Heavenly realm.




Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Twenty-One!



I
had just come though a serious illness/hospitalization. I had just turned 40. I was on some heavy duty meds. I was still reeling from all that had happened. And then . . .

We found out that I was pregnant.

As delighted as I would have been at any other time, at this particular time, I was mostly afraid. Afraid that the baby wouldn't live. (We had lost a baby 5 1/2 years previously.) Afraid that something would be wrong with our baby. (One of my doctors even called me at home with concerns about the drugs I was taking.) It was a long and complicated pregnancy, and there was a very dark day when all signs indicated that I was miscarrying. Before she sent me for a D&C, my doctor sent me for an ultrasound . . . and the baby's heart was beating strong!
I went into premature labor at 33 weeks and there were more complications before, during, and after the birth, but the result of all of the struggle was THIS BEAUTIFUL GIRL . . . this blessing to our home, our lives, and our world . . . who is suddenly twenty-one years old!
Oh how very glad we are for God's plan for her (and for us)! We are so grateful for her heart for the Lord and for the blessing that she is to so many!





The rest of this post is a little gathering of memories . . .

newborn Bekah

Bekah at 7 months


Bekah's first birthday

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Twenty months old


Bekah's 2nd birthday (having a bit of a meltdown)

Bekah's 3rd birthday

Bekah was the flower girl in Ryan and Sarah's wedding ~  just a few days before her 4th birthday

5th birthday

At the beach, age 5

Classic Bekah face!

9th birthday

Playing dollhouse with Pinky

Bekah's 10th birthday ~ at tea

11th birthday photo shoot ~ photo by Kati

Chocolate chip cheesecake for her 12th birthday
(Same for her 21st!)

A teenager!

Bekah's 14th birthday

I had to include at least one piano picture! 🎹

Bekah at 15

Sweet sixteen!

Bekah's 17th birthday

18th birthday

Bekah's senior picture

Bekah at 19

Bekah at 20

Twenty-one!


Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
Proverbs 31:30

20 comments:

  1. Bekah is a beautiful girl! Happy 21st birthday. What a lovely look at her through the years. Cheryl, I know your heart is full as you remember those early days and are so blessed today to have her in your life.

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    1. Absolutely full, Martha Ellen! God has been merciful and we are so blessed!

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  2. Bekah is such a lovely girl in all ways, it just shines from her. Happy birthday!

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    1. Thank you for your sweet comment and birthday greetings, Barbara!

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  3. She is a beautiful young lady. Happy 21st birthday!

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  4. Happy Belated Birthday to Bekah. She's a beautiful woman; those eyelashes 🎈

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    1. Thanks so much, Vee! And, yes, those eyelashes . . .

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  5. Happy Birthday to your beautiful Bekah! Loved reading the story of her coming to be.

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    1. As hard as it was to live that story, I have nothing but praise to God for all of it! In this case, it is easy to look back and see His hand!

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  6. Your miracle baby Bekah is a lovely young lady. What a wonderful story to document. Love the yearly photo history of her. Those eyes! Twenty-One already!!

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    1. Thank you, Ellen! She is a miracle baby! God's plan was mercy! How quickly the years fly by . . .

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  7. What a lovely young lady, and a beautiful story about her birth. So nice to have all of those photos. It must be strange for her to be the "only child" at home now.

    Melissa from Instagram.com/melissasnotes

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    1. Thanks so much, Melissa! I love her story too, even though it was hard to live it at the time. Those days are redeemed!

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  8. I almost didn’t comment since I comment on FB but Happy Birthday to Bekah! Little Ellie looks like auntie I’m thinking!

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    1. Thanks for the extra greetings! :) And I think you're right! Ellie has those big expressive eyes too!

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  9. What a wonderful post! My how the years fly. Happy Birthday to your beautiful Bekah!!

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    1. Thanks so much, Rosella! Indeed, they do fly . . .

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  10. Whoa! Hope I didn't accidently post a partial post. Maybe I accidentally deleted it? I think I was saying I can't believe how gorgeous Bekah's eyelashes are - since she was a baby! :) I know this is weeks old, but Happy Birthday to your baby girl. She's a lovely young lady. It was good to read the story of her beginnings. You are blessed.

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    1. No partial or deleted comment here, so we'll go with that!

      Those eyelashes have always been stunning! She actually grew into them a little bit. :) Thanks for your kind words and birthday wishes. I am indeed blessed!

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