In A Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on the Gentle Art of Learning, Karen Andreola suggest that each day a child should have:
~ something or someone to love
~ something to do
~ something to think about
I agree with that! But now that I am no longer in the business of directing a child's learning through homeschooling, I also believe that those are good principles for anyone . . . throughout life!
Here are a few of the things that I have been thinking about recently . . .
💡THE MERLIN APP
I suppose this is not so much "something to think about" as it is an aid to knowledge, but it certainly spawned some thinking this week. Mom, my sister Linda, Bekah, and I went to the cemetery to put a wreath on Daddy's grave for Father's Day. While we were there, we heard a bird chirping over and over and we weren't sure what kind of bird it was. I remembered that I had downloaded the Merlin app a few weeks ago after a few recommendations on Instagram, so I decided to give it a try. The app quickly identified the singer as a Northern Cardinal, a common bird in our area. I should have recognized call, its but I didn't and I realize that I don't know many birds by their sounds. Over the next few minutes, Merlin also identified a Carolina Wren, a Brown-Headed Cowbird, a Chipping Sparrow, and a Great Crested Flycatcher. Their calls were not as loud as the cardinal's, but the app picked them up and we noticed the sound when it did. How much I have missed! Now I am inspired to listen more attentively and to learn to recognize the calls of the birds in my area.
💡GIVING A CHILD SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
Even though I no longer homeschool my own children, I find it fascinating to watch my grandchildren learn. I use the word "watch" because sometimes it seems exactly that . . . as if you can see that lightbulb turn on as something grabs their imagination and they start thinking about it.
We have a weekly video call with our daughter Kati's family. (Rabbit trail here: I am so thankful that, as much as I love Little House on the Prairie, I do not live in a time before such things as video calls! I am grateful to see those grandbabies across the miles every week!)
Back to my story. On a recent video call, Caleb (5) and Ellie (almost 4) were telling us about seeing a bear in the movie Balto. We proceeded to talk more about bears, including the fact that Ellie was a bit of a grumpy bear that day because she hadn't slept well the previous night. Then I remembered the poem about Fuzzy Wuzzy and recited it for the children. As soon as I began, Caleb stopped wiggling and gave me his full attention. (I was "watching" him learn right then.)
A few minutes later, Caleb surprised us by saying the poem himself . . . after hearing it one time! Ellie was saying some of the lines too. So I have decided to read or recite a poem for them each week while interest lasts. This week's was "The Purple Cow" by Gelett Burgess.
We have a weekly video call with our daughter Kati's family. (Rabbit trail here: I am so thankful that, as much as I love Little House on the Prairie, I do not live in a time before such things as video calls! I am grateful to see those grandbabies across the miles every week!)
Back to my story. On a recent video call, Caleb (5) and Ellie (almost 4) were telling us about seeing a bear in the movie Balto. We proceeded to talk more about bears, including the fact that Ellie was a bit of a grumpy bear that day because she hadn't slept well the previous night. Then I remembered the poem about Fuzzy Wuzzy and recited it for the children. As soon as I began, Caleb stopped wiggling and gave me his full attention. (I was "watching" him learn right then.)
A few minutes later, Caleb surprised us by saying the poem himself . . . after hearing it one time! Ellie was saying some of the lines too. So I have decided to read or recite a poem for them each week while interest lasts. This week's was "The Purple Cow" by Gelett Burgess.
💡A QUOTE ABOUT REMEMBERING
My Bekah is an old soul. Of course, she has always been around people older than herself. Ron and I were ages 44 and 40 when she was born. She has three older siblings and the oldest is 20.5 years older than she. Also, Ron is the fifth of eight children, so her aunts and uncles are also older and she has grown up hearing about Social Security and retirement and colonoscopies and the like. On the flip side, she has always been around babies too since her first nephew was born when she was 20 months old and she now has fifteen nieces and nephews. All of that to say that Bekah has had exposure to a broader scope of thoughts and culture and ideas.
Since Bekah started college, we have had many conversations about "common knowledge." It is surprising that many students have not read, watched, or even heard of books, movies, historical figures and events that we consider "common knowledge." We have discussed the fact that if you only know what has happened in your own lifetime, and if you are only familiar with modern thought, then you have missed a vast amount of knowledge! Are you truly educated?
I came across this quote yesterday as I was reading Beyond Mere Motherhood: Moms Are People Too by Cindy Rollins.
Since Bekah started college, we have had many conversations about "common knowledge." It is surprising that many students have not read, watched, or even heard of books, movies, historical figures and events that we consider "common knowledge." We have discussed the fact that if you only know what has happened in your own lifetime, and if you are only familiar with modern thought, then you have missed a vast amount of knowledge! Are you truly educated?
I came across this quote yesterday as I was reading Beyond Mere Motherhood: Moms Are People Too by Cindy Rollins.
Remembering is one of the most important things we can do for our present and our future. Remembering is not looking back only, it is carrying those things past into the future for the preservation of culture. |
I love that, and it gives me something to think about!
💡THIS VERSE
Our ladies' Sunday School class has committed to memorizing one Bible verse each month. I made a phone wallpaper for this month's verse so I see it (and think about it) multiple times a day.
Thanks for joining me on this meander through my random thoughts! I'd love to know what you have been thinking about!
In an attempt to catch up on my Gathering the Moments posts, I just posted
Gathering the Moments | March 2025
Gathering the Moments | April 2025
I hope to "gather" May soon! We'll see . . . 🙃
Gathering the Moments | March 2025
Gathering the Moments | April 2025
I hope to "gather" May soon! We'll see . . . 🙃
Yes, remembering is such an important part of our lives. How terrible it must be not to be able to think back.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with you, Barbara!
DeleteI recently downloaded the Merlin app, too, and find it so interesting. There is much birdsong in our area, but it's surprising how many songs I didn't pay attention to. I think staying curious about the world is important throughout life.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm so thankful that I have my memories. They are precious indeed.
Yes! I, too, think that staying curious about the world is important! If we're not learning, we are stagnating.
DeleteI love this adage: that each day a child should have something or someone to love, something to do, something to think about. Good advice for any age. And that verse from Phil 4:6 is a top favourite, much used and relied upon.
ReplyDeleteI loved this post, Cheryl. Thank you!
Thank you, Brenda! That concept resonated with me when I first encountered it, and I agree that it is good advice for any age! I love that you love, need, and rely upon that verse . . . me too!
DeleteWhat a delight to come upon 3 different posts from you today! You certainly have been having some great times with family and friends. Summer is upon us and the flowers planted by other people so that we can enjoy today is a great treasure.
ReplyDeleteI try to help my grandsons "think about something" different than their "normal" activities without sounding like "an old person", sometimes it's a good conversation!! :)
Thanks for hanging with me, Melissa! I work on posts in bits and pieces, so I blitzed the blog with three at a time this week! It was a busy spring, and yes, we did enjoy some great moments with family and friends!
DeleteI love that you engage your grandsons with new things to think about!
I really appreciate your meandering and reading your thoughts here. That is a great idea to share poems with grands. Asking them what they are thinking about is another good prompt. It's also good to ask a friend that question.
ReplyDeleteThanks for meandering with me, Ellen! And thank you for that prompt . . . I will use it!
DeleteThis is a great post! I now need to check out the Merlin app, think about a designated time for a weekly video chat with my Tennessee grands (ours are random), and to think about remembering. My dad, age 86, is now always talking about things from the past that I've never heard him mention before! so interesting!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Deanna! I think you'll enjoy the Merlin app! I have to say that our video chats were at random times at first, but Kati and Andrew suggested that we have a regular day and that has worked much better. Of course, there are times that we have to change the day or even skip a week, but overall, it is helpful to have a plan in place. I think that elderly people talk much about the past as their present world shrinks. They have seen so many changes, haven't they? (Of course, I am saying "they," but I am getting to be "they" myself!)
DeleteOh I so love that last verse! It speaks to me every day (and I need to hear it)! Loved this post Cheryl.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Rosella! Such a wonderful privilege isn't it? To be able to bring our requests to the God of the universe?!
DeleteLoved this post and the reminder about Merlin. I downloaded it ages ago and forgot I had it until reading your post. You have motivated me to figure out how to use it.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much! I hope you enjoy the Merlin app too!
DeleteI enjoyed this post, Cheryl. Wonderful thoughts. My husband has discovered the Merlin app, and he really enjoys learning the birds' songs. I should download it, too. I love your plan to share poetry in your weekly video visits with your grandchildren. That will certainly make a sweet and probably fun memory for them.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Becki! Even after learning about birds several times over my years of homeschooling, I realize that I didn't really learn their songs, so this is a new area of learning for me. Sharing poetry was a spur-of-the-moment idea, but I hope it will be fun for all of us!
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