It was our very first Valentine's Day as husband and wife . . . and I was sorely disappointed!
I had had high expectations. Surely my new hubby had some sort of romantic plan for this special day. After all, when we were dating, he had given me sweet cards, a locket, perfume, and candy. He would certainly do no less now that we were married!
Oh, but he did.
Nothing.
I was working that year as a teaching assistant. As I sat in the teachers' lounge on my break, all the ladies were talking about their flowers and candy and cards and plans for dinner . . . and I, the newlywed, had nothing to share. I was not a happy woman.
Over the years, we both have learned a lot about expectations and what makes the other one happy and sacrificial love. It is not always mushy-gushy, but caring and tenderness.
We have had a rough ten days. My dad fell hard twice as a result of heart "pauses," had a pacemaker put in, has some broken bones, and is very frail. As of tonight, he is here at our house where he will receive home health and therapy. Our whole family has pulled together in every way possible. Our church family and our friends have been supportive and have prayed many prayers for us. Our God has been faithful! We feel incredibly blessed!
But back to my Valentine . . .
♥ TRUE LOVE searches for Vanilla Coke and makes sure there is a cold one in the fridge for me to take with me to the hospital.
♥ TRUE LOVE is running the vacuum and doing the laundry while I am staying with my dad in the hospital and rehab.
♥ TRUE LOVE is praying for me when I am beyond tired and being my sounding board and offering wise advice.
♥ TRUE LOVE is caring for my parents as his own and opening our home to them.
So yes, the newlywed who wanted romance and roses has learned a lot.
I have learned what true love is.
I will be scarce here in Blogland for a while. It is a season that demands adjustment of priorities. Please know that I am thinking of you! I will probably check in with my blogging friends from time to time, although I may read and sneak away without chatting. I'm sure you'll understand. ♥ |
